Guys, Silly Things You Should Stop Doing When You Are 25yrs& Above

AGE they say doesn’t define maturity
or wisdom but that is not excusable
for absolutely behaving like a kid. I’m
sure you have seen at least one
“childish” guy even though he’s
through with his degree but still
thinks and behaves like a pry 2 school
boy
Being mature means a man is able to
take care of himself and approach
problems with a calm and collected
manner. He understands the
importance of being a man, being
independent and values what he has.
One doesn’t necessarily have to be
rich before he’s being regarded as
matured, but needs to have a good
orientation about money making and
ability to influence others to the best
of his capabilities
Sadly, the fact that you could admit to
see a part of yourself doing one of
these things even till now does not
give you the audacity to throw
punches at me because I know that
we are ALL Evolving and we have
some maturing to do.
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Guys, Silly Things You Should Stop Doing
When Your Are 25yrs& Above
1. Writing Yourself Off Because Of Your
Financial Status
Many guys believe that if you
consistently make money you will get
the lady you desire. This is complete
bogus. Your money can however get
you a money-grubbing lady that
would zoom off when your cash flow
no longer meet her needs, and not a
decent lady.
The notion that every lady wants
money has driven many dudes into
developing low self esteem; and
acting like ladies puppets. As a matter
of fact, no matter how empty your
pocket is, no lady can ridicule you
unless you give her the chance to
drag you in the mud. Remember
empty pocket is NOT empty destiny
When a guy lacks self confidence and
holds himself in low self esteem, he
sees money as the only manipulation
tool to get the lady he desires
2. Publishing Your Life Plans On Social
Media
Having your friends informed about
your plans is not a bad idea but it
should be done moderately on social
sites. If Makinde had published his
life plans on social media, I doubt if
he would be a successful blogger by
now
I have a friend who always publish his
life plans on his facebook profile,
whatsapp, BBM and other social site.
You will see updates like
Exam Loading 30% ..50%… 100%;
GNS 201 taken down, Com 101 here I
come;
In two hour’s time, I will be in 400L
…. 400L here I come with swag;
Ibadan loading 10%.. Oyo Loading
30%.. Akure Loading.. 100%
Haba !! bros you are no more getting
younger for Christ’s sake. Passing
your messages this way isn’t a bad
idea,
Another step forward in my
academics, Lord I thank you;
Final lap, this calls for celebration;
Lord see me through as I embark on
this journey;
Isn’t it better that way ?
3 . I Know More Than Anyone Else
A mature guy needs to be polite,
respectful, considerate and attentive.
Even if you have vast knowledge in
Queen’s English, do not aim it at using
it to mock others. A mature guy
respects other people’s way of talking
knowing fully well that your fluency
is NOT a true measure of intelligence.
A negatively minded immature dude
will always be complaining and seeing
the bad side to everything by
antipathy felling that is expressed by
condemnation especially when other
people are trying to communicate
their mind lucidly. Just as we have
some self acclaimed mature skull
head yet dummies who have no
meaningful contribution to make but
condemn every write-ups
4. Lying To Ladies So As To Get Liked
The notion that many ladies fall easily
for liars doesn’t mean you should you
should also employ lies to win a
lady’s heart.
A dude with ambition, distinctive set
of goals for himself and holds himself
with high self esteem will not be
deterred from other people’s belief
and will not be easily pressured into
doing things that he does not believe
in.
I personally believe that when a dude
has low self esteem, swag-less and
does have what it takes to prove his
worth, he resort to lying about what
he’s not just to get liked. I see no
reason why I should lie to a lady
about being in 400L when I’m
currently schooling in a Polytechnic.
Ooooh common this is pure
discombobulation.. You have to be
confident in yourself, who you are,
stay true to your word and true to
yourself
5. Generally Acting Like An Idi.ot
I detest guys who act like idiots when
they spot a lady. At 25, a lady passes
and you have to show your stupidity
by hissing or shouting. ”see ukwu”, or
”see ynash”.. Isn’t that foolishness ?
You have to bring out that your Q5 or
Ipad just the moment you spot a lady
and that’s when you start singing,
doesn’t that make you a plain idi.ot ?
The truth is, you don’t have to flaunt
your electronic gadgets to show how
sophisticated you are. Your worth can
be proven even with a torchlight
phone of N2, 000
If you are 25yrs and above you still
find yourself doing this, then it’s a
clear indication that you are a
certified idiot. Even if you seem
immature inwardly, you don’t have to
display it outside
6. Sagging Of Trouser
In my personal view, men that are
guilty of this are not worth my
respect. I just can’t fathom why or
how a grown up man would put his
trouser beneath his buttocks and go
about sagging and prancing around
the streets. It doesn’t NOT make you
look like a big boy but it makes you
look weird, absurd and childish .
Someone who spends more time
pursuing his passion/ aspirations
would never go about sagging his
trouser and go about walk bouncing
the streets.. If not for the epileptic
economic state of the nation you
should be through with child bearing
7. Chasing Your Kid Sister’s Mate From
Street To Street
The notion that one should enjoy his
youthful days judiciously doesn’t
mean you should go about chasing
anything putting on skirts around the
streets.
Also, chasing and keeping different
species of ladies is NOT and
achievement and will never be an
achievement anytime anyday. When
you are 25yrs & above and you are
guilty of this, you are silly.
By the time nemesis catches up you
with, you will start running from
churches to mosques to Guru Maraji
crying for deliverance
8. Going To A Party Without Being
Invited
I personally don’t go to parties where
I’m not invited unless I’m going with
a friend who was invited. This shows
self respect and discipline. You
shouldn’t be present anywhere things
are being given for free
9. Raising Shoulders To Neighbours
It’s paramount to know that the
farther you go in life, the humbler
you should become. That your parents
are rich and you were privilege to be
a graduate at a tender does not make
you should look down on others,
remember life doesn’t life end there.
On a different note, life is about class
but It doesn’t mean you should avoid
saying hi to neighbours just because
you want to show class
10. Going To The Church Without A Bible
Your church does not beam Bible
passages on the screen, but you
always go to church without a Bible/
mobile installed Bible on your phone&
you see nothing wrong in it, bro you
need to be spiritually grounded to
some extent
I drop my pen at this point

Written by : Tosyne2much